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A Progressive Vision of Therapy.


The Institute for Family Services offers an innovative and proven approach to a wide range of couples, family and child-centered problems and youth violence. Our family and community paradigm is garnering attention throughout the country and around the world.

This model of therapeutic intervention provides specific strategies for making pertinent changes in personal and family issues and resisting harmful forces of domination. In directly confronting broader social pressures, such as the loss of community, civic values, the fracturing of family life, gender norms, religious and community norms and the demands of the workplace, family members make a connection between their personal dilemmas and the negative impacts of societal patterns and cultural values.

Services include the expertise of IFS therapists as well as contributions from a diverse clientele composed of individuals (such as dentists, lawyers, corporate executives, sanitation workers, home-makers, physical therapists, mothers, fathers, grandparents, and teachers) whose social capital brings significant resources to the IFS community and helps to buffer families against isolation.

IFS is one of the few programs, on a state-wide and nation-wide level, that provides comprehensive, safe, and integrated services to entire families, when presented with complex problems of domestic violence, sexual abuse, addictions, adolescent struggles of resistance presented in the form of eating disorders, hair pulling, self-mutilation and other forms of trauma.

Expanding our Vision


We intend to address the scarcity of mental health services for Spanish-speaking families in New Jersey by providing therapeutic and educational services for children and families, regardless of immigration status.

At Progresando en Comunidad, families will benefit from services in Spanish and from the expertise garnered over 20 years of best practices established at the Institute for Family Services. A comprehensive plan for all members of the family will include informing them about matters that impact their lives, creating linkages among all participants towards the goal of building a sustainable community, and sharing essential resources.

This model is designed to bring about social justice and equality between the larger society and Latino families from different countries and economic situations.

Parenting Beyond the Baby Boomers to millenniums in the 22nd century..


Parents from diverse family forms engage in a therapeutic circle to share parenting ideas and challenges faced by parents of infants, young children, adolescents, and young adults. Parents today are stressed by increased work responsibilities, lower incomes, limited recreational outlets, and children who, emboldened by peers, the internet and busy parents, consistently threaten the safeguards of traditional parental authority.

Parenting skills, on the other hand, can range from authoritarian to permissive to authoritative. Which style is best and does the personality of the child dictate parenting style? These and other concerns are regularly addressed with an on-going system of support and ideas for successful parenting!

To close the therapeutic circle, children, adolescents, and young adults are also embraced in a system of support, creativity, and identity building.

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Our Philosophy


Our philosophy is to embrace the resilience that all families and individuals bring to therapy and create a landscape of liberation in resolving life’s struggles. We do not define our clients by the particular identity of their presenting problems but rather by their multiple and complex identities: their wholeness.

What makes the Institute's approach so visionary? The Cultural Context Model. Our focus is linking people across family boundaries to solve common problems. Personal and relational problems are situated in broader social issues to form a healing context.

The change we seek is not only adaptive change in personal life -- change that makes people more contented but ignores power hierarchies -- but rather change that is transformative and intergenerational. This is specifically relevant around issues of oppression and oppressor systems.

The change that we strive for is one of global humanity and social justice, embracing acts of kindness, compassion, and civic values of care by giving and receiving simultaneously.

Our Results


Maya But what about results? Consider this. Approximately 30% of IFS's clientele are families with problems of domestic violence, sexual abuse, and substance abuse. Even so, in over 30 years there have been no reports of victims in danger, or in fear for their lives. Perpetrators at different learning paces respond to strategies of accountability.

During the entire life of the Institute, only four clients have been hospitalized and less than five percent are on psychotropic medications. While loss and trauma destroys many families, our families are embraced at their most vulnerable points, propelling them into powerful, life-activating choices. Other families and individuals who present with a range of issues, from job-related stress, to children with academic and/or peer difficulties, to teens in trouble, to couples with relationship and/or parenting issues, also utilize our services with successful outcomes.

Outcomes over the past 20 years reveal a high standard of health and mental health for families that remain in intermittent contact with sponsors and live their lives within embracing communities. The majority of our clients stays in contact through an email list serve even when they move out of state or across the globe.

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